After you land

What happens once we land?

Everything before this was decisions. This part is errands — a long list of small things that all seem to depend on each other, usually while you are jet-lagged and starting a new job. We understand that it is a strange few weeks: the big move is behind you and yet nothing works yet. The good news is that the list is shorter than the one before the flight, and it has a natural order.

The first fortnight

Five things, roughly in this order

Most of the first two weeks hangs off the first two items, so it is worth doing them early even if you do nothing else. Each one is covered properly in the relocation guide for your country; this is just the order.

  1. Your tax number

    An IRD number in New Zealand, a tax file number in Australia. Payroll, a bank account that behaves properly, and KiwiSaver or super all wait on it — so this is the one to do in week one.

    What you need to apply
  2. A local bank account

    Your first pay needs somewhere to land, and a rental bond usually has to come from a local account. Some banks let you start the process before you fly, which is worth knowing.

    Banking and what to bring
  3. A GP, and how the health system works

    Enrolling with a practice is what makes routine care cheap, and it is far easier done before anyone is unwell. Not urgent, until it suddenly is.

    How enrolment works
  4. Your driving licence

    Your current licence works for a limited period and then it does not. The deadline is shorter than most people expect, and the conversion route depends on where the licence was issued.

    Converting your licence
  5. Somewhere longer-term to live

    Most people arrive into something temporary. Once you know the commute and the school run in practice rather than on a map, the permanent decision gets much easier.

    Renting, bonds and inspections

If you are moving with children, school enrolment usually sits alongside items one and two — it is tied to your address, so it shapes the housing decision. Moving with your family has the sequence for a household rather than an individual.

Keep the list somewhere

My Plan carries the arrival stage as well as the planning one. It shows one next step rather than twelve, remembers what you have done, and adjusts if your dates or your household change. If you built a plan before you flew, it is still there.

Open my plan

What nobody warns you about

The bit that is harder than the paperwork

The errands get done in a fortnight. Feeling at home takes longer, and in our experience this is where people are least prepared — because it is the part no checklist can carry for you.

Month three is often the hardest

The novelty has worn off, the friends you left are getting on with their lives, and the new ones are still colleagues rather than friends. Almost everyone we have placed describes some version of this, and almost everyone comes out the other side of it.

A partner who is not working feels it first

You have a team, a routine and a reason to leave the house. They may have none of those yet. Worth naming out loud early rather than discovering it in an argument.

Distance from family is not a one-off cost

It is a birthday, a funeral, a grandchild growing up on a screen. Some households build an annual flight into the budget from the start; it helps more than people expect.

Finding your people takes effort here

Communities exist — national, cultural, professional, sporting — but they rarely come to you. The people who settle fastest are usually the ones who joined something in the first month, whatever it was.

If we placed you and it is not going well, tell us. We would rather know at month three than read it in a resignation. And we are glad to introduce you to someone who made the same move — often that is the thing that helps.